Erica Reischer on "But Dad lets me do it!"

Erica Reischer on “But Dad lets me do it!”

Give kids credit for trying to get what they want, says parent coach and psychologist Erica Reischer. But to keep the endless back-and-forth in check, follow this one guideline.

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